My mother-in-law Ginger has a birthday on April 27. This post will honor her through the letters of mother-in-law.
She's known by a few names, Virginia being her given name, but she answers more to Jenny and Ginger. When I married Chris, it was easy to call her Mom. Maybe because mine had already passed away, but I know my mom Stella would approve because she too was Mom to more than just her biological kids.
Online dating. When Chris and I got engaged only after knowing each other for two weeks after meeting on match.com, Mom said, "What took you so long?" Can you imagine any groom's mother saying that? Probably had something to do with her experience on Yahoo Personals and conversing with James for a few weeks, finally meeting him in person, and then marrying him about a week later.
Thanksgiving, Mom's favorite family get-together. She hosts it with all the fixings, but her pies steal the show. If we're there on Wednesday night, we eat pie. We have a piece for breakfast the next day. Then one for dessert after the noon meal—which just might be at 9:30 in the morning. Then one for a snack and another for dessert with supper leftovers. If we're not heading home until Friday afternoon, we usually find room for another slice or two. One year I gained five pounds!
|pies, pies, & more pies ~ Thanksgiving 2013|
Hair. Hers is white. Pure white. Strangers ask her for the name of the color, but it's natural. Maybe her white hair is where my husband Chris gets his little grey strip. He too gets gets accused of coloring it.
|Ginger and her pretty white hair with her late husband James.|
Empathetic. She understood my plight of step-mom-ness because she was one too.
Resilient. Her life story is one of triumph and overcoming. She said, "Regardless of what I've gone through, I have always known that God had a plan for my life." What a testament to her faith in Christ providing for her—often in ways she wasn't aware of at the time. Her spiritually strong heart keeps on ticking, and and for that, we are thankful for her 74th birthday.
Intelligent. She's an avid reader whose stacks of books impressed me the first time I entered her home. Now she reads a lot on her iPad by checking out electronic copies from the library. Yes, she's tech savvy.
Needlework. Mom used to do quite a bit of crosstitch. Now she's back to quilting and other crafts.
Love. Her prayers, Facebook communication, and phone calls let us know we are not far from her heart and mind.
|my mother-in-law Ginger with me a few days before her birthday|
Approved of me. She told me shortly after Chris and I got married that he must really love me because she thought he'd never leave Bartlesville. I took that as her acceptance of his choice.
Words. She likes to play Scrabble, but be prepared to play by her rules. That means looking up the words in the dictionary before playing the tiles.
What positive words would describe your mother-in-law? What traits does she possess that you admire? What makes her unique?